xmas party disasster

so today was the squadron xmas party... a huge disaster all around... first of all.. gary never got me a ticket... we never really confirmed we had a babysitter.. the neighbor said they would watch the kids... so i was like cool... well then friday or thursday the neighbor of course can't watch the kids... whatever... then friday amber said she would watch them if i wanted to go.. okay.. cool.. well turns out gary couldn't get me a ticket.. and his ticket that he bought probably wasn't any good anymore either... he bought it.. then they had to get a bigger room so more people could come so they told them they had to turn in their old tickets and buy new more expensive tickets... that's crap.... in my opinion... so gary said f that.. he wasn't paying more... so he never got a proper ticket... well he didn't think i was going so he set up for a ride to come and get him so he could drink... like we need that after last freaking week.. but whatever... so the guy calls at 230.. the party doesn't start until 6! they were going to hang out before the party...WTF??? so anyway...i had a sitter and was going to go so gary told them he didn't need them to come get him... cool... well turns out he planned on getting at least a hundred bucks to go to the party... well we don't have it! it's almost freaking xmas.. and we have 2 kids... who the hell has that kinda cash to waste at a casino right before xmas... not us... so he got all pissy and we got in a big fight and in the end i cancelled the babysitter and we didn't go...he's kinda been glumy and depressed since... but he never said he needed money for the party.... if he would have i would have waited until i got money on tuesday to pay one of the bills so we could have gone... so now i feel like the shitty bitchy wife... and i'm sure i'll get called a bunch of names behind my bank... but whatever.. i was looking forward to a night out too but  silly me thought the whole thing was a xmas party... at the casino.. i didn't think that meant you had to gamble...i'm sure i can make it up to him sometime.... feel bad but sometimes you just gotta say no :(